Join Now for Free!
45
Male
Never Married
Boston, Massachusetts
Are you interested?
In their own words

Friends or more with Mediterranean flavor

(Ladies, if you wanna play matchmaker and hook me up with your gay cousin or best friend... yes, I am a gay man, so romantically looking for another guy... but happy to make friends of either gender! :) <p><font size=-2>La dolce vita is out there, waiting to be found, and I'm gonna find it! I try hard to keep faith and patience that it's all building towards that elusive feeling we all want: contentment. I try to make the most of what I've got and find my bit of joy in the moment. </font></p> <p><font size=-2>As I've met different people from different backgrounds, I keep finding myself drawn back to the Mediterranean, Greek/southern Italian guys especially. There's something about a cultural heritage that has deep roots, something about all that sunshine and family and life surrounded by the sea that makes for beautiful people with an amazing outlook! I'm looking to meet some cool gay or bi guys, develop friendships, and hopefully that'll turn into something more!</font></p> <p><font size=-2>In addition to Boston, I'm often in NNJ where I grew up and still have family. I love me my Jersey boys, lol!</font></p> Looking For: A guy around my age (mid to late 20s), outgoing with a big open laugh, a quick wit that keeps me on my toes, with a subtle wink you can pass without anyone else noticing. Have your own style. Have goals that keep you challenged. Have love for your family, love for your friends. Know where you came from. Plusses: You speak Italian with your parents. You got a Boston accent. You're not afraid of the hair on your chest. You know how to pull off a baseball cap.

Appearance
Best Feature
I'll tell you later
Hair
Brown
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Athletic
Height
5' 11"   (180 cm)
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Socially
Has Kids
No
Wants Kids
Maybe
Religion
Christian
Education
Doctoral Degree
Occupation
Student
Exercise
Always
Politics
Middle Of The Road
What languages do you speak?
English, Chinese, Spanish
Favorite Music
Blues, Classical, Dance / Electronica / House, Middle Eastern / Persian / Arabic, Acoustic
Favorites
Favorite Artists
Cezanne
Favorite Authors
Jeanette Winterson
Favorite Hangouts
Deluxe
Favorite Clothing Stores
American Eagle
Favorite Colors
green
Favorite Country
Italia!
Favorite Drinks
gin and tonic
Favorite Comedies
South Park :)
Favorite Dramas
Vertigo
Favorite Horror Movies
Exorcist
Favorite Place To Be Kissed
overlooking water at night
Favorite Plays
King Lear
Favorite Songs At The Moment
Village Wedding, John Tavener
Favorite TV Comedies
Scrubs
Favorite Styles Of Music
anything vocal
Interests
Acting
have in the past, but don't like the spotlight as much
Animals
cute and fuzzy
Antiques
as long as they don't clutter up!
Art
next to relationships, what makes life worth living
Astrology
fun but don't beileve it
Astronomy
hubble pics are pretty
Barbecues
awesome!
Bars
low key, not "in the scene"
Camping
wanna try it
Card Games
fun! just remember it's a game ;)
Cars
love a guy who knows about em
Cooking
pretty good at it, wanna learn how to improvise
Dancing
ha! when i'm drunk
Dating
fun fun fun
Drawing
impressive if you can!
Exercise
1-2x a week, try to be good about it
Food
always up to try something new
Football
don't get the appeal
Gambling
nickel slots for me
Gardening
wish I had a greener thumb...
Guns
no way!
Internet
an amazing tool for learning, networking, staying in touch
Live Concerts
awesome
Movies
all the time
Opera
listened since I was 12, Puccini is amazing
Philosophy
do it too much, lol
Photography
impressive if you know how to compse a good photo
Politics
as long as they're not an end to themselves
Psychology
a good therapist never hurt anyone, haha
Radio
NPR
Reading
all the time
School
my life, for better or worse, lol!
Shopping
not my thing, really
Singing
feels so good when you do it right!!
Soccer
mmmm soccer players
Television
rots your brain-- oh, is I Love New York on? gotta go :)
Theater
amazing stuff
Traveling
as much as I possibly can! want to see the world... Loved my time in Roma and Venezia
Writing
what I do for a living, so gotta love it
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Somewhat Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Average
Independence Somewhat Dependent
Mood Average
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Average
Thought Process Average
Tolerance Compliant
Lifestyle
Dress Somewhat Casual
Energy Somewhat Low
Go Party Rarely
Neatness Average
Punctuality Often Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
COMMUNICATION all the way! Also important for our romantic styles and needs to mesh well.
What turns you off?
Duldrum routine. Inflated self-importance. Ignorance. Undue stubbornness. Meanness towards waitstaff.
What turns you on?
Assertiveness, confidence, even a bit of cockiness. Have the balls to kiss me in a movie theater and stand up to the str8 neanderthal who can't deal. Masculine bearing, hair on your chest, baseball caps, knowing your cars.
What do you hope to be doing five years from now?
Teaching smart young adults at a great liberal arts college... with an awesome (and hot ;) guy to keep me on my toes at home!
Join Now for Free!