I like her because she smiles at me and means it.

I am a person that needs lots of attention, what can I say I am needy. I am a people pleaser, I like everyone to get along with me and the ones around me. Things work out better when you have harmony in your life. Sometimes I wonder if I try to hard, cause I think I have not found that thing harmony yet, or that thing all good relationships have: I have always focused on others, to take care of them and protect them. I have a great job and a good career on its way up the corporate ladder. But, the one person I never really paid attention to was…… me. I guess that’s why I think I am a people pleaser, I was so busy pleasing other that I forget to take care of myself. Looking For: Someone that is a good listener and is caring, not just in words but with actions. I want to be able to have fun and enjoy life with a person that wants to try new things. As you get older, looks tend to become less important on my attraction scale. Honesty, loyalty and communication along with hygiene and good grooming would be the characteristics that mean the most. The days of tall, dark and handsome and big, blonde and buxom are for the movie stars and people less focused on having interpersonal relationships with another. That will always exist, but I think they fall more or less in the minority. I want to do the things the rich and famous do, I think its someone to share some excitement with. I want someone that fits in with my family not all the time but on holidays and family gatherings.