Scarlett O'Hara looking for Rhett Butler or maybe Elmer Fudd! Southern gal, loves to cook and have a house full of people to feed and entertain. Sour puss's need not apply. I am straight forward and tell it like it is. If you don't want the truth, don't ask me, cause I won't lie to you, whether its about your fat butt or my weight. I am not into gyms, neither am I into all this exercise crap, don't have time, busy working and trying to get by in this old world. so, if your looking for muscles or abs, not here. I know its good for you, but who has the time? I want a man who is honest, funny, loving and doesn't leave his dirty underwear in the floor. someone who is not a mama's boy, a man who could if needed wash a load of clothes or turn on the dishwasher. someone who can talk about something other than sports, or what deer has the biggest rack. Someone who has time for ME! I may not be coming across very good here, but just got out of a 20 year marriage where I was number 2, and now I want to be number 1! Looking For: Looking for an honest man with a sense of humor. Someone who is not set in their ways, does not object to change and willing to try something new. No mama's boys, no one who has to be babied or coddled.