I'm a single, educated, professional with no children. My friends would say that I'm witty and very outspoken. I enjoy artsy things (museums, crafts, music, etc..) Looking For: Are you that BHM that I've been dreaming of? You might be if: 1. You are single (not seperated or in the process of a divorce) 2. You are Intellectual (I prefer a man that is aware of what's going on in the world... a man that knows what NPR is and enjoys if from time to time. 3. You are Independent (and not living with his parents) 4. You are Intelligent(and I don't necessarily mean educated, but just someone that talks with some sense... on that note, there`s nothing wrong with speaking in ebonics, just know when to and also know how to speak proper English and use grammar in the written form correctly! 5. You have a sense of purpose (Granted most of us haven`t really figured out why we exist, but my potential mate should at least understand that his life has purpose and he should at least be making effort to figure out what it is! If he has figured out his purpose and has incorporated that into his life then all the better!) 6. You are uninhibited (I love seeing, doing and trying new things!)