I'm a pretty laid back, cool single mother. I am a BBW. I love movies and am a voracious reader. I've been divorced forever so I tend to be fairly independent. I find it hard to accept help from anyone, but that is because I've had to do it all myself for so long. Since I am a single mother, I'm cautious about dating. In other words, I haven't done it in a while. (I'm talking about dating, but that too.) :-) I have a great sense of humor and love to laugh. I think that laughter in the bedroom is one of the sexiest things on earth. It implies a level of comfort that you don't often find. Now I'm not talking about "Three Stooges" stuff here. :-) But if I fall off the bed, I'm going to be laughing as hard as anyone. :-) Again, I'm a Big woman. A handful you might say. (In more ways than one. hehe) Looking forward to hearing from ya'll sometime if you can find me. Looking For: First thing on this list would have to be that magical sense of humor. Make me laugh guys. Again, not talking about "Three Stooges" stuff here. :-) Don't bring on the cream pies or eye jabs. It would be nice to find a guy that would take the time to break through my barriers that have been put up over years of single parenting. It would be nice to find a guy that puts the seat down. Trust me, even I can lose my sense of humor at 2am with my behind in icy water. :-) But I am a forgiving person. On a more serious note, just like everyone, I sometimes wonder if what I'm looking for actually exists for me. I want someone that looks at me and sees his world. Someone that when I look at him, makes the rest of the world fall away. Someone that will hold me and make me feel safe and can let me do the same for him. Am I asking too much? Isn't that what ya'll want too? Are you out there? I really hope so. I'm getting a little tired of everyone asking what my bra size is and what color underwear I'm wearing at the moment. LOL You'd think getting to know people would get easier with age.. LOL I'm looking for Mr. Right, not Mr. Right Now. Please keep that in mind. In a nutshell, I'm looking for love. I'm 37 and I still believe it exists, but it does get harder to believe as time goes by. I know you're out there somewhere, I just hope you check out my profile. :-)