I am person who knows what she wants out of life,so if you are a player or are out for just thing you are barking up the wrong tree!! I am not one of those girls who you think has low self esteem because she is a larger girl and will settle for anything!! I am set in my ways and is looking for my soul mate!! In order to love someone else you have to love yourself, I want to be with someone who wants to be with me and not be embarressed to be out in public with me!! I am a very affectionate person!!!