Is the Hokey Pokey REALLY what it's all about?

I am a single BBW, recently relocated to Spokane. I've just spent several years in a situation that defies description (Wyoming, enough said), but I'm moving on and trying to start over. I have long reddish brown hair and green eyes (which are enhanced with the assistance of contacts -- don't alter your eye color hah!). I may be full-figured, but I do take pride in my appearance and I like to look my best. Of course, there are times when I just throw on a pair of sweats and a baseball cap, and I'm just as happy. Looking For: At this point, all I ask is you have a pulse and not be a complete psychopath...okay, a pulse, one or two teeth, and not a psychopath. Seriously, I can't really say what I do or do not want (except the psycho thing), because I have to know the PERSON. Each of my relationships has been very different, because I believe, honestly, it is what is INSIDE that counts. The only constant is the person I'm with, either romantically or even as a friend, has to make me laugh. I love to laugh, and look for humor in every situation. Other than that, I'm not sure what else to say. If I haven't totally scared you off yet, email me, ask questions, we'll chat, and who knows?