I am a spirited, independent, and successful woman looking for a loving, spiritual, principled, smart, mentally healthy, professional, and amorous man. The ultimate goal? Real love. Not some vague approximation but the real deal, the whole enchilada: heart, mind, body, and soul. But no pressure... the important thing is to have fun on the way. Looking For: The man I'm looking for is secure enough in his own right to appreciate a powerful, strong woman who knows her own mind - even while she is gentle, sensitive, and loving, too. Mostly I'm looking for a good, decent, loving man. Extra, extra points go to men who are honest, kind, and loving. And extra, extra, extra points go to a man who can really love me. PS - If you're married, move on... I don't do married men